The Raven and the Phoenix

Self-concordant goals align with our primary interests and deepest values. People who identify and pursue these goals end up being happier and more successful.  There is a distinction and implications between perceiving one’s work as a job, a career, or a calling.  Tal Ben Shahar uses the “bird” analogy to illustrate finding your calling, your purpose that encompasses meaning, interest and passion.

Have you found your bird? If so, what is it? If you haven’t yet found it, could it be that you’ve encountered your bird in the past and overlooked it? Or if you are certain that you have not yet encountered your bird, explore in writing where you might find it or how you can increase the likelihood that you will find it.

Below are my “birds.”

The Raven

Certain Native American Tribes view the Raven as a guide meant to help humankind along his/her journey. Ravens are messengers who share the secrets of the Great Spirit with their people. 

I am the Raven. I guide your beautiful soul on a journey at times constrained by the bars of a cage. I acknowledge and honor your pain, fear and hope.  I am the benevolent keeper of your words, wishes and possibilities. My soft, feathered wings hold you, in this moment, and in moments to come. I gently offer the secrets to acceptance, peace, love and joy. Through the reflection of my kind black eyes, you begin to see yourself as whole, as wonderful. Your stories, beliefs and values become the framework of wings.  I will lightly perch on your shoulder and whisper in your ear, long after you have discovered your own magnificent sky, and my blue/black feathers are but a memory.